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Wisdom
[As] a jewel of gold in a swine's (pig's) snout, [so is] a fair woman which is without discretion. Proverbs 11:22
This proverb describes a woman of excellent beauty and pleasant voice, but who is without taste, flavor, or judgment; without decision, discernment, discretion or reason.
People do not discover who they are. They decide who they are. The person described in that proverb has decided to make a particular presentation, a public image to display (as a manequin in a store window). Pause and think about it.
Why not make a list of personal qualities that you want to describe your own character? Discriminate (in the same manner that you choose sweet over bitter, spicey over bland) between what is good and what is bad! Discriminate between what is excellent and what is merely acceptable.
Merciful Unaffected Cruel
Loving Apathetic Hateful
Trustworthy Irresponsible Devious
Committed Convenience Antagonist
Honest Beguiling Deceitful
Dilligent Distracted Lazy
You get the point, don't you?
A fool hath no delight in understanding, but that his heart may discover itself. Prov.18:2
...or "in revealing his personal opinions"... So, here a person looks deep into his, or her, own miniature pin-hole views in order to form an opinion about everything! A person must purposefully PUT good ideas and values in! There is an important difference between having opinions and having good counsel!
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things. Philippians 4:8
Yes, a person can be both beautiful and wise. Generally, however, people prioritize one or the other and not both.
Take charge of yourself! Don't let other people determine your worth. Your worth has already been determined by the price Jesus Christ paid to redeem you. You are now worth what He was willing to pay!
Romans 5:8
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.